How to cleanse your home

Everything around us has energy. People, places, items, ect. Our home can pick up negative energy just like you can. It's good to cleanse your home so that you have a pure environment.

Have you ever walking into someone's home and felt anxiety, or a negative feeling? I like to make sure my home instantly gives people a good and happy feeling when they enter. 

While positive energy flows and moves, negative energy will stick and accumulate, turning it into stagnant energy.  

It is good to constantly cleanse your home, you will start to notice a huge difference with your mood and energy level. 

Before any cleanse it is good to clean up your home. Having a lot of clutter will make it harder to cleanse. 

Burning Rosemary, Cedar, Ancientveda, and Sage (blue sage, common sage)  

Smudging  is one of the oldest and easiest ways to cleansing your home. It will clear out old stagnant and negative energy. Use a feather and use it to move the smoke up towards the ceiling. 

When I burn my bundle I always say a cleansing prayer asking for the stagnant and negative energy to be cleansed and replaced with positive pure energy made from light and love. 

You can also get incense or candles to burn if you don't want to get bundle. 

Sea Salt

Fill a bowl with sea salt and it will naturally neutralize the negative and stagnant energy. You can put a bowl in each room of your home, or just in the room that seems to have the most traffic.

You can also add herbs and essential oils to the bowl of salt.

Crystals and Rocks

I have several crystals and rocks in my home. I leave them in the room I do readings in as it is a high traffic area. 

You want to make sure you are cleansing and charging your crystals on a regular basis as they absorb the energy around them. 

You can charge them by holding them in your hand and saying a prayer. You can also charge them by sticking them by the window. The moonlight and sunlight will both charge them. 

So pick a way that works best for you. When you start to feel tired, depressed, or eveb if you or your family gets sick. Do a cleanse. Say a prayer asking for any negative, dark, or stagnant energy to be removed. Then ask for it to be replaced with white love and light. When I am not feeling well I ask for emerald green healing light. 

You will start to notice a huge difference in your mood and the energy of your home. 

God bless 

Misty

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Get to know your 7 chakras

What are Chakras? 

Chakra means “wheel”; a vortex of vibration, light and energy.

We have seven powerful energy centers within the body called chakras. And like the definition says, it is a wheel. So imagine your body is a car. You can't drive a your car with flat tires, just like your body can't function with unbalanced chakras.  

They start at the top of your head and go all the way down to bottom of your spine. These seven chakras are located in the astral body. Astral body means "soul".

A good way to visualize this is to think of them is as if they were little computers. And your body is the main system that cannot run without all of the other computers. Each center processes different information. They affect your mentally, emotionally, spiritually, and physically.

The seven chakras

The seventh chakra is called the crown chakra. It is located on the top of your head, and connects us to our higher consciousness. 

When off balance it can cause headaches, depression, hopelessness, and confusion.

When in balance, it helps us to live in the here and now as well as gives us trust with our inner guidance. 

A great way to help get your crown chakra in balance is to visualize a purple lotus flower inside the top of your head. Visualize the flower being full of pure energy. Imagine it getting larger and larger with every breath, as well as opening yourself up to your higher conscious level. 

The sixth chakra is called the third eye chakra. It is located between in the middle of your eye brows, and connects us to our cosmic insight. 

When off balance it can cause moodiness, loss of sleep, disrtrust, and a feeling of being imbalanced.

When in balance, it helps us to feel focused, and to feel a strong intuition and connection to spirit. 

A great way to get your third eye chakra in balance is to visualize a spinning blue indigo ball of energy in between your eyebrows. Visualize this blue ball of energy expanding all around your head, giving you the power to think without judgement or attachment. 

The fifth chakra is called your throat chakra. It is located in your throat, and connects us to our emotions, communication, and the way we espresso ourself. 

When off balance it can cause anxiety, and a feeling of insecurity. It can also affect your communication skills, and will make you feel like you have no control or power over your emotions. 

When in balance it helps us to speak out truth without fear or caring what other people may think. 

A great way to get your throat chakra in balance is to visualize your favorite food as a beautiful blue color. Visualize it going into your mouth and releasing any thing that may be blocking you from speaking  your truth. 

Your fourth chakra is called the heart chakra. It is located in our heart area, and connects us to our emotional self, our passion, love, and forgiveness. 

When off balance it can cause hopelessness, jealousy, abandonment, and anger. It can also make you feel disconnected to yourself and to others around you. 

When in balance it helps us to feel love, compassion, gratitude, safety, and will help us to feel connected to the people around us. 

A great way to get your heart chakra balanced is to visualize a green rose bud in the center of your chest. While doing this take in slow and deep breaths. Visualize that the rose bud is getting bigger with each breath while letting go of any anger, bitterness, negative or stagnat energy. 

Your third chakra is called the solar plexus. It is located in the center of your stomach, right under your rib cage. It connects us to our intuition, and confidence. It also gives us our will to live, and the drive to accept who we are as a person. 

When off balance it can give us anxiety, fear, depression, and loss of self confidence, and self worth.

When in balance it helps us to feel confident, accepting of ourself and others, powerful, and gives us a sense of peace and harmony.

A great way to get your solar plexus in balance is to visualize a ball of orange fire in the center of your stomach. Visualize this ball going up your body, out the top of your head, and to the sun. Stretch your body high as you can. Take deep and slow breaths and imagine that your body filling up with energy made from the purest light and love. 

Your second chakra is called your sacral chakra. It is located in your stomach, where your reproductive organs are. It connects us to our sexuality, emotions, creativity, and confidence. 

When off balance it can cause fear, guilt, dependency issues, jealousy, addiction, and shame of your body and sexuality.

When in balance it helps us to feel confident, independent, and sexual fulfillment. 

A great way to get your sacral chakra in balance is it visualize a ball of beautiful orange light under your belly button. Visualize that you are spinning this ball counter clockwise turning it into a funnel shape. While doing this imagine that pure white love and light is being poured into the top of the funnel.

And finally your first chakra, this to me is most important chakra as it is your energy base. It is called the root chakra. It is located at the base of our spine, and gives us the connection of being grounded/balanced, having security, as well as instincts of survival.

When off balance it can cause you to feel anxious, hopeless, anger, low energy/exhausted, and alienation. 

When in balance it helps us to feel full of energy, balanced/grounded, secure, and can affect your over all health in a positive way.

A great way to get your root chakra in balance is to visualize a red lotus flower at the base of your spine. Imagine with every breath you take that this flower grows bigger and is flowing with energy. Do this until you feel like you are full of good energy, and are completely charged. 

I have posted affirmations that link with every chakra. Say these affirmations daily to help keep you balanced. 

Once you start to become aware of your chakras, you will start to understand why you have emotional, physical, mental, and spiritual illnesses. 

You can start to heal yourself by being aware and in touch with your chakras. 

God bless 

Misty 

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Everything is temporary

"Hardships often prepare ordinary people for an extraordinary destiny."

-CS Lewis

We all have our ups and downs in life. Things can seem so hopeless at times. But it is important to know that everything is temporary. The difficult situation you may be feeling today, or even this month won't last. 

Life changes every minute of every day. So if things are going good enjoy it, it won't last forever. And if things are going bad, don't worry. This won't last forever either. 

Henry Ford once said it best. "When everything seems to be going against you, remember that the airplane takes off against the wind, not with it".

Hardships are a necessity in life, it makes us stronger and wiser. It is important to know that you are strong enough to get through anything. God will lead you through the fire, all you have to do is take his hand. 

Do not let your past or present rob your future. We are all destined to do amazing things. Whether this is being a doctor, a social worker, a daughter, a wife, or even a parent. 

We affect so many lives around us, both in negative and positive ways. We teach people lessons on a daily bases. Don't ever beat yourself or others for the mistakes that have been made, accept the mistake and move forward. You are a fighter! Remember that you are made out of the best part of God. That means you can get through anything that life throws at you. 

Money, people, and situations will come and go. And the people that we love most will fail us, they are human. It doesn't mean they don't love you. It just means that they make mistakes. 

We all have our struggles, some more than others. We all face tragedy and despair. The true miracle is that we are able to grow from all of these experiences, even when the odds are against us. 

Remember that we are who we are because of the hardships we have faced. And out of hardships, a lot of opportunities come our way. For example, my husband had a job he loved but didn't make very good money. I had asked him over and over to go to a higher paying job, but he didn't want to leave. 

He ended up losing his job, and I don't work anymore due to my health. So as you can imagine this was devastating! Two days later he found a job where his hourly wage was doubled. I believe that God knew he wouldn't quit on his own, so he had to step in so we could get out of the financial struggle we were in. 

God will always come through, it may not be the way you want. But trust that he always knows what we need, and will always lead us to our true path. 

Some struggles may last longer than others. Losing a loved one is a very hard thing to experience, especially if it is a child. But know that as time goes by, your pain will get less and less. 

Your loved ones are always around. They come in to check on you, to love on you, and even just to say hello. And please know that this separation is not permanent. When your time here is done, you will be with them again. 

Please don't give up on yourself or on your loved ones just because things are hard. You can get through anything! And the people that are meant to be in your life will never leave. 

In regards to all things in life, this too shall pass 

God bless 

Misty

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Try to look beyond the hurtful things

Trying to look beyond hurtful words and actions is not always an easy thing to do. This is a topic that comes up a lot with my energy healing clients. And I myself have been affected by others words and actions.

I want to try and shed some light on this subject. When someone does or says something hurtful, the majority of the time it actually has nothing to do with you. 

An example, you go out to eat and the waitress is horribly rude your entire visit. This is where you need to try and look beyond her actions. She is most likely going through something in her personal life. Does this make it ok? No, but that doesn't mean that you should return the rudeness. Maybe instead do something kind, you never know how it will affect her day. 

We all struggle, life is hard on all of us. So the next time a friend, family member, or even a waitress or cashier says or does something that is mean or even hurtful. Try to respond differently. 

Think to yourself that they must be really struggling, and instead of lashing out do something kind. Maybe give an extra big tip, or compliment the cashier, tell your friend and family member that you love them. 

We never know how we affect others, and doing something kind in a situation like this can really affect someone's life. 

We are all guilty of doing this. I even do it, it's not something I am proud of but its human nature. We always take things out on others around us. 

How great would the world be if instead of getting mad and trying to hurt them back, we did something kind. I know it's frustrating and hurtful, but if you can put those emotions aside long enough to do something kind I promise the hurt and anger will fade away quickly.

I myself have lost several friends over the years. Mostly because I have been very misunderstood for the majority of my life. Being a medium and keeping that secret to myself explains a lot of it. But I also would react in a negative way, and this would only make the situation worse. 

I have let people's actions and words affect me so deeply in the past. I would cry and cry and would feel so alone. Now that I have the knowledge that I do, I am able to see the bigger picture. Does this mean I don't ever slip and lash out? Of course not, I am human. But being aware  and trying to break the cycle will bring more peace to you. 

Don't ever let someone's words and actions affect you in a such a deep way. Remember it's never about you, it's about them, and about what is going on in their life. 

Try to show love and kindness to the people that hurt you, and to the stranger that snaps at you. Reacting with kindness will spread, and it will make them think about what you just did for them despite the way they just treated you. 

Life is so wonderful, but unfortunately a lot of people don't get to experience  all of the amazing things life has to offer. We let our pride and ego get in the way of being happy.

So the next time someone does or says something hurtful, break the cycle. Turn it into something kind, not just for them but for you. Your happiness and peace is what is what important. 

My favorite saying is "what would Jesus do". He lives inside of all of us. We all have the ability to be like Christ. Let his love and light shine down on you. 

Gob bless 

Misty

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Energy Purging

When you undergo and kind of energy healing, your body will start to experience a kind of purging. This can happen with self Chakra cleansing through meditation, or can be done by a spiritual healers. 

This purge happens when you are removing negative, and old stagnant energy that is no longer helping you in a positive way. This energy being removed will then be replaced with pure energy made from light and love. 

Purging usually happens after your energy healing takes place. Your physical body is trying to adjust to the changes. Out with the old, and in with the new. Unfortunately the purging process isn't the most pleasant, but it's a good thing because it means that the healing is working. 

Everyone experiences something different when they purging process starts. Some will get mild flu like symptoms, stomach cramping followed by a release, as well as a big emotional release.

The most common in my experience is the emotional release. You may feel super emotional and cry a lot right after the energy work is done. And depending how much is being cleansed out, this can happen for a couple days. Don't worry, when this happens you will know you are on the right track.

Your body goes through a shift. It changes from the old energetic you, to the new energetic you. 

The goal as a healer is to remove all low energy, stagnant, and negative energy. Anything that is blocked, and is causing mental and physical illness. I will then replace it with pure light and love healing energy. 

Our mind is so powerful and we literally manifest illness when we are in this low and negative energy place.

People that usually come to me for energy healing are in a place in their life where they feel lost energetically, mentally, physically, and spiritually. 

Usually the people I do energy work for are people who have unhealed emotional trauma, anger, guilt, heartache, anxiety, depression, headaches, or even just feel out of sorts "off". There are so many things that healing can help you with, not just emotionally but physically as well. 

Energy healing is so powerful and when you start to open up your Chakras, and start to cleanse and protect your energy you will feel a huge shift in your life. 

You have 3 very important parts about you. The physical body, the spiritual body, and the energetic body. If one of these is not working properly it will throw everything off. 

Think about it this way. If you have 3 cables going into your tv, and one of the cables gets a short in it, the other cords are useless at this point. Your tv will no longer work, or maybe it will work but not the best way that it could. This is the exact same as the 3 parts that are you. 

So if your life seems to be at a stand still. Or you are having a hard time with your relationships, your job, or anything else in your life. It is most likely because you have 1 or more of these things that have a "short" in it. 

So if you get energy healing done and don't feel great for a couple days after this is why. This means it is working and you are on your way to becoming a heather you. 

"Clutter in your in physical surroundings, will clutter your mind and spirit.

-kaneisha

God bless 

Misty 

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Talking with Jesus

I mentioned in my first blog post that it wasn't my guides that started talking to me about my gift and how to embrace it. It was actually Jesus, he started talking and leading me to a path I could not find on my own.

I remember one of my first conversations with him. I wanted to know about religion, and I needed help with finding my spiritual path. He told me that people get very lost in this area. He said that religion was man made, and that the true "church" was Jesus himself.

This was something I had always known, but had struggled with. The world we live in is all about religion, and people have a hard time understanding that religion and God are 2 very separate things. It's so important for you to know that you can have God in your life without going to a building every week. 

We are all apart of God. No matter what mistakes in life we make, he is always going to be apart of us. 

If we think about this in energy terms, try to imagine that God is the main energy source. Everything and everyone he has created, has his energy and love put into it. We are all created from him, and have his love and light inside of us. 

God and Jesus do not require for you to do anything to get their love. They love us no matter what we do, and what we don't do. He has told me that the good works we do should be because we want to do them, not because we think we have to do it in order to get into heaven. Being a good person should never be done for any reason other than that it brings you personal joy. 

They love all of us and their love does not come with requirements,or "fees" is how he put it. You don't have to go to a building every week to be with God. You only need to find Him and Jesus within yourself, and follow the path that will teach you the lessons that you came here to learn. 

You don't just come here once, we come here several times. In fact make our own "contracts", things that we need or want to work on and learn in this lifetime. We are connected to the people around us, and always have some connection with them in every life that we have. 

When I have talked about this with my clients, I have referred to our time here on earth as a job. We have a time card that we use to punch in with the moment we are born. And when our contract is up, we punch out. Sometimes we leave lives early in order to teach the loved ones around us certain lessons, and to make them stronger. 

Jesus is all about love, there is not cruelty or judgement that comes from him or from God. We all make our own destiny, we pre plan everything before we come here. If we don't follow our contract, then we will have to repeat it again and again. 

So if you come to this life, and don't learn the lessons you pre planned to learn, then it's safe to say you are not following your own contract. 

Remember that you are apart of God, and you have so much love and light within you. Sometimes it can be hard to see because our human body and minds feel pride, guilt, fear, and anger. Our ego's literally take over, and it blinds us from seeing how beautiful life can be. 

So when you get angry or upset with someones actions or words. Simply send them light and love and don't lash out in anger. Don't take what they say to heart, because in all reality it's never about you. It's about them, and their own insecurities and issues. 

This is a work in progress for me, so don't think I don't make mistakes and do these things because I do! I am human, and it's in our nature to experience so many negative thoughts, thoughts we would never have on the other side.

If you make a mistake, forgive yourself and move forward. We always think that God is disappointed, so we beat ourselves up so much about it. In all reality we beat ourselves up way more than is necessary. 

Try not to feel guilt and shame, that is all from the ego, and comes from the words of man kind. God does not shame you for anything, he loves us no matter what we do, and what we don't do. So try to live this life to the fullest, and learn from every negative and positive experience. 

If you want to be giving and do kind thing, know that this in no way will affect you going to heaven or not. Do it because it's what you want to do, not because you think it is required. 

God sends blessings are all around us. Sometimes it is hard to see all of the blessings because of our negativity as humans. Once you really start to put forth the effort into being positive, you will start to notice all of the wonderful things that are happening around you. 

If you have a horrible tragedy or loss, know that this is apart of your contract. It is not because God is trying to be cruel. It's because we have already planned for these tragedies, and hardships to take place in our lives. 

You're never alone, Jesus is always there to help guide and comfort you. All you have to do is reach out your hand and ask.

God Bless 

Misty 

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